Ds1 is 14 and attends a single sex school.
There have been six or seven incidents of violence towards him in the past two years, he's been punched in the head twice, choked, pushed up a flight of stairs so his head hit the railings, etc.
Yesterday he was held in a headlock and strangled to the point he couldn't breathe and then punched in the stomach.
I had to hear about this from him as school didn't contact me. His HoY told him she would speak to the boys involved.
Last time he was punched, HE got a detention for 'antagonising'. We went in to speak to the school and they were apologetic but told us ds needs to keep quiet when they verbally abuse him as he aggravates the situation.
Yesterday's incident was because a boy (who incidentally is six foot and well built compared to ds who is 4'11 and weighs less than seven stone) called him anorexic. This is a theme, he gets called this frequently.
Ds replied along the lines of 'you ought to watch your Big Mac intake' and this led to him being attacked.
He came home and cried in my arms. I am RAGING.
I'm keeping him home today and plan to speak to this school after I've dropped my youngest off. I'm not particularly assertive and will get in a flap. Please help me with some strategies and phrases to get this sorted.
They apparently have a 'hands off' policy but this constitutes a fifteen minute detention in most cases so not really a deterrent.
I can't keep sending him into a place where he is physically hurt regularly.
He is a bright boy and does well at school but currently hates it because he seems to be a target (it's several unrelated incidents).
Any advice welcomed.
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LookAtTheFlowersKerry · 30/03/2017 07:47
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