I lent my friend my vintage bike. I now know that that was very foolish of me: lessoned learned, I will never do that ever again. Neither a borrower nor a lender be is good wisdom.
But anyway, she had it for months and kept telling me she'd give it back when I asked and then not returning it, but when I finally pressed her and told her I wanted it back ASAP she admitted it had been stolen. At first she didn't even apologize, but then she did and offered to replace it. She sent me a link to a used bike that kind of looked like mine, but was a newer knock off and was valued at £100 less than mine. I said I wanted the same make and model as the one that was stolen back.
I did a lot of looking and found one, for about £220. It was a few hours away on train and the train trip there and back cost me £70.
Am I being unreasonable to expect that she refund me the money for purchasing the bike and the travel costs to get it? I didn't make a big fuss about the time and effort I put into it (several days of intensive searching and then a full day of traveling), but to be honest that also annoyed me a lot. If I were in her position, I would have done the searching and traveling to replace an object that was stolen while in my possession. Is that just me being too nice? Is she right to throw a link to a less valuable bike and then leave it at that?
Is it unreasonable of me to expect that she pay for the replacement bike and the cost of travel?
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AIBU to want to be reimbursed for the cost of replacing a vintage bike I lent to a friend who had it stolen while in her possession?
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OrdinalViolet · 29/03/2017 10:05
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