If you had to leave your child with a childminder for three days out of the week would it be important that you met her personally?
Would you feel ok with sending your DP/DH off to 'vet' them and then if he thought the lady seemed ok you'd be happy enough to send your child to her on his say-so alone?
Genuinely curious as I said to DH that I would want to meet her myself and he had a mini-huff and I said, "I think it's just a mother thing" and he said, "No, it's just a YOU thing."
I said that it isn't as though I don't trust his judgement it's just that I would want to know who I'm sending our child to.
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To actually want to meet the person who would be looking after my child?
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Writerwannabe83 · 26/03/2017 21:08
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