We have 1 dd. I'd always pictured trying for a second. I'm nearly 40 so time is not on my side. Dp has no pension at all as a result of being self employed long term. He's going to start one very soon. I only started mine in my mid 30s. We'll be paying off our mortgage well into our 60s.
We'd planned to start ttc soon but I'm really worried about the lack of pension.
I've always wanted 2 children but I'm thinking that the financially wise thing would be to stick with one. I'd be heartbroken to only have one child though.
Am I over thinking this? Is this a ridiculous reason to change our plans to try for another child?
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To only have one child due to pension worries?
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AntiHop · 26/03/2017 18:37
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