Hi, first post I've started, not really wanting replies but just to make people think.....
Ok so over the years we get repeated posts on MD about DH forgetting/buying crap last minute present/not getting Brekkie in Bed etc/Kids playing up etc and lots of people reply (and I agree) that its just another day - nice to get a treat but in the grand scheme of things not the biggest of problems...... you are quite entitled to feel upset, that is your right, however I would like you to just pause for a moment and think of people less fortunate on this day......
- women who would love to be mums who cannot have a family or are desperately trying to have a family and wonder if they will ever have mothers day
- people who have lost their children
- elderly mums who's kids don't visit or call
- kids who are in care
- kids (or adults) who have lost their mums
And for those whose DH's are generally crap and never make any effort, then maybe worry about the other 364 days of the year they are crap, not just mothers day.
You have beautiful children, you are a mum (overworked like the rest of us), your kids love you even if they haven't remembered a card or lavish present, your DH probably loves you as well.
A card and a gift (whilst yes nice) on a specific day of the year does not change any of this - be happy for what you have and cherish it.
This isn't a bashing thread on how people should or should not feel, just a bit of perspective.
Happy Mothers Day to one and all x