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Ex wanting to get in touch - suddenly I feel that there's something dodgy about him

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lottieandmia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:43:47

He's 36 and Has been constantly messaging me to say how much he misses me etc. Ive noticed that on FB he's friending quite a few girls (not women) who look about 14 and then liking their photos. Example below. I have a 13 year old daughter and all of a sudden I'm wondering if he's actually got some kind of hidden paedophile type tendencies. I haven't seen him for about 4 years. This is strange isn't it?

limon Sat 25-Mar-17 18:44:38

If you find it strange, then you have your answer. Trust your gut instinct.

ChicRock Sat 25-Mar-17 18:46:18

If that's someone's actual photo from FB then you need to report your own post and get that photo removed. hmm

Canyouseethis Sat 25-Mar-17 18:46:31

Urm why the fuck are posting pics of young girls here?

Chippednailvarnishing Sat 25-Mar-17 18:46:43

Has the person in the photo given you permission to include it on a forum where you are making reference to paedophiles?

ThePiglet59 Sat 25-Mar-17 18:46:44

Stay well clear. Protect your child

pinkyredrose Sat 25-Mar-17 18:47:11

I think the girl in the pic looks about 17/18 the.

lottieandmia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:47:13

No, it's just an example.

HecateAntaia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:47:26

should you be posting that picture?

Guitargirl Sat 25-Mar-17 18:47:47

I don't think we need to see her photo to be honest.

Renaissance2017 Sat 25-Mar-17 18:48:04

What the fuck are you doing putting someone else's photo on a forum? I assume you have permission to do so?

HecateAntaia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:48:26

oh ok. x post.

i wouldnt want to associate with a grown man who befriended lots of children, no. it would make me feel uncomfortable.

Canyouseethis Sat 25-Mar-17 18:48:52

Take the photo down. It's someone elses picture. It doesn't belong to you.

SmurfPants Sat 25-Mar-17 18:48:58

reported. That's not on OP.

BewtySkoolDropowt Sat 25-Mar-17 18:48:59

Who's photo is that 'example'?

chastenedButStillSmiling Sat 25-Mar-17 18:49:35

Can you just explain the picture? It's not your DD is it? Is it a child you or he knows?

If he has a teenage child, then he's likely to get all his/her mates giving him friend requests. My DH doesn't accept all DDs, but some parents do.

How long ago did you split up?

I do find it a bit odd you've posted a picture of a child, though.

Redyellowpinkblue Sat 25-Mar-17 18:49:46

I'd remove that persons picture op, could be someone's daughter/relative or friend on here for all you know. How would you feel if someone shared a photo of your daughter or relative without her (or your) permission?

ChicRock Sat 25-Mar-17 18:49:59

So where did you get the photo from? Did you get their permission to use it in a discussion about paedophiles?

Fucks sake.

lottieandmia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:50:02

This is not actually from Facebook. What I'm wondering is whether it's normal for a 36 year old man to like the photos of women who look that young? It's not easy to judge someone's age. I'll get it removed but this is a model & it's an example of the sort of age they look iyswim

lottieandmia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:52:22

I've asked MN to remove it.

I knew this man for years and I'm quite shocked that he's like this tbh

KC225 Sat 25-Mar-17 18:55:00

If you have not seen him in four years then neither of you said the 'lets be friends then' Four years is quite a long time to suddenly realises he misses you. Why did you break up?

lottieandmia Sat 25-Mar-17 18:58:39

Because he was controlling. I'm suddenly panicking that he was hoping to groom my daughter's sad

Chippednailvarnishing Sat 25-Mar-17 19:01:20

Then just don't have any contact with him.

What a weird thread.

Gingernaut Sat 25-Mar-17 19:01:37

Block him.

KC225 Sat 25-Mar-17 19:02:29

Oh Lottie, I think you have your answer. Controlling men rarely change. Is he your DD's father?

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