OH currently having a chuck out. A whileback he did this and dumped a load of children's books and toys in the garage and then told me afterwards that he'd done it and to go through it if I wanted anything. This eve he's having another chuck out, I've just got it in and it's been suggested I go take a shower. So I started looking through his chuck pile and got told to go have a bath. I asked 'You won't put it in the garage,.will you?' (Not in an awful way, but just asking with calm voice). Asked as the stuff that got put in the garage got ruined by the damp as I was too busy with more pressing day to day work and children issues to go check through it. Anyway I then got shouted at, told I should have asked in a nicer way and no wonder I fall out with people! Oh and that I was trying to start an argument. I said 'No' in a calm voice, 'I was just checking that you weren't going to put it in the garage', 'It was just a question'. I feel like he gets stressed and then claims that I am stressed and have started an argument, starting to realize that actually I am calm and when he says I am stressed and angry that perhaps that's what he's feeling...Does anyone else feel like this with their OH?
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