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Aibu to be pissed with dp

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user1473008242 Fri 24-Mar-17 17:44:44

I've just had major surgery 4 days ago got home yesterday which was great o could go to bed and relax and start my recovery but oh no dp decides to drive 500 mile round trip to collect dd from my family instead of leaving her til Saturday my dd is special needs so needs a lot of care then he bogs off out the house all day comes home and expects me to start cooking as he doesn't have time as he needs to wash the car!!! I mean really!!! I'm seriously pissed and in agony aibu to tell him to go fuck himself?

DoloresTheRunawayTrain Fri 24-Mar-17 17:49:18

YANBU. Is he normally this much of a twat. Leave him with no illusions how incapacitated you are. Does he seriously want you to potentially reopen your operation site just so you can skivvy after him? Does he realise what the potential dangers are?
Can you get help from other friends or family? Even if it means travelling the 250 miles. I'm sure they raised some eyebrows at him deciding to collect her early.

BonnyScotland Fri 24-Mar-17 17:50:53

stay in bed x

embod Fri 24-Mar-17 17:52:04

Really? That's dreadful behaviour....why on earth would he collect her early?

user1473008242 Fri 24-Mar-17 17:52:43

My family were relieved she was collected early as she is hard work but don't have any family near to help out either....he's not normally like this but he is seriously being a dick ... I have however ordered take away for me and dd he can learn to fend for himself!!

NurseButtercup Fri 24-Mar-17 17:52:48

I agree with BonnyScotland. I would stay in bed and play dumb. Major surgery and he wants you to cook? FFS sorry for swearing.

TotalPineapple Fri 24-Mar-17 17:53:16

YANBU. Is he always this shit?

TotalPineapple Fri 24-Mar-17 17:55:30

Well done on the takeaway OP. I'd be washing the car with rocks as soon as I felt better is how it looked was more important to him than my health (not really, but I might make sure I got in in the divorce).

SquinkiesRule Fri 24-Mar-17 18:07:18

Good for you. Let the idiot go hungry.

RainbowsAndUnicorn Fri 24-Mar-17 19:38:53

He cooks or gets a takeaway.

He WNBU to collect DD earlier if she is hard work for family as long as he is caring for her.

user1473008242 Fri 24-Mar-17 20:03:53

Its me caring for her not him I wouldn't be so annoyed if he was doing something to help!!

barefoofdoctor Fri 24-Mar-17 20:10:51

Get in a one off Nannie/paid help, make the waste of space pay for him/her then get rid (of waste of space) 'D'H once you are well.

yayforsummer Fri 24-Mar-17 20:26:35

Omg tell him to go fuck!!! What a dick! Get well soon flowers

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