Hey everyone, I'm about to have a colossal rant and I apologise in advance for this.
I lost my dad in December; it was really sudden, with no warning or lead up to the event that took his life. I took a week of compassionate leave but felt like I should go back, so did a week after the event.
The issue is, I'm struggling with a lot right now. I'm anxious about all kinds of things and the anxiety is keeping me awake at night and leaving me feeling horrible and drained. I'm also really struggling to adapt to my new family setup. My mum has never really been able to look after herself and she's in an even worse state now.
What makes it worse is that I can't drive due to bad eyes and my mum's house is a five hour coach journey away. There is also only one a day and no one understands how difficult it is to do that trip on a Sat and then have to do it again on the Sun. I work full time and my weekends are nonexistent when I do this. FWIW, my family moved away when I was 19, leaving me to move out and find a flat in the area I grew up in.
My real problem is work. It's like everything that has historically annoyed me is now causing me serious rage. Every time I get a call after hours, or someone offers whimsical feedback on something that results in extra work, or someone makes claim to time I'm spending working on something else, I just can't seem to contain the rage.
I'm known for being a happy positive person and I want to know how I can turn this around and start feeling better before I rip someone's head off.
Work, for their part, have been brilliant and we've had various chats about how I'm feeling. I just wish I could snap myself out of this. I'm cold, irritable and wishing I was anywhere but here. I've lost interest in my job completely and I used to love it. Part of me is thinking of historical happenings where I'd work my arse off on something and get very little in the way if acknowledgement.
I'm 32, if that is relevant.
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Grapeeatingweirdo · 24/03/2017 12:58
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