Dd is 5 and in reception. She has a big group of friends including a 'best' friend'. The Bf has been a bit of a thorn in my side since nursery, teaching Dd rude words, an incident of showing each other their private parts, general kids behaviour . 3 weeks ago Bf went to another friends for tea. Since then Bf is now best friend with the other girl. I was a bit relieved. Dd was upset but has won a certificate for hard work, been much nicer at home and was sent to the head for a sticker for good work yesterday.
In the last 3 weeks the exbf has been unkind to Dd. She has always taken her pictures and reward stickers and has pushed Dd into 'the omelette line when Dd wanted sausages ' and has been telling the other kids not to play with Dd. We have been telling Dd to tell the teacher when kids are horrible to her but she won't. She really wants to be best friends with this girl. Yesterday Dd was upset, she was sobbing in her bed and when I asked her what was wrong she said she was so fed up Bf was asking the kids Dd was playing with to play with her instead and not talk to Dd.
My Dh messaged Bfs mum and Bf admitted doing this and was made to apologise today.
There are 2 classes in each age group at school, AIBU to ask the school to move Bf to the other class in year 1. My judgement is a bit clouded as a had a dominating bitch of a best friend all through school and was glad to be put in a different class in secondary school! I don't want my Dd to get stuck with a friend she can't stand up to but I don't really want to fight her battles. Dh thinks Dd shouldn't be made to move class as she hasn't done anything wrong???
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To split Dd up from her best friend
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Playdoughinthecarpet · 23/03/2017 22:36
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