I'm pretty sure IABU but I need a little big rant. I know there have been similar posts, have contributed to them (I think) but have just sat through well, stood up at the back so the more important tall parents could see my youngest DS assembly. He's 7 and in year 2. Same kids doing the speaking parts yet again, no support for children like mine who want a speaking part but aren't offered one because it might take a bit more nurturing to boost their confidence.
He told me at the beginning of the week he was taking part in a group dance for the assembly. He was pleased as punch, really enjoyed practising and the TA spotted him the next morning and said "Didn't we have a great time dancing yesterday miniFried!" He nodded and grinned at her and went into class.
Then he comes out at home time and says the teacher decided "the other group was better so we're not dancing anymore." He was really upset by it.
Last year in Year 1 he was given 2 quite long lines to say. He said them confidently, clearly and happily. I was so proud of him but more importantly he was proud of himself and it gave him a huge confidence boost. He was happy to go to school and it was great for his self esteem. (I know self esteem has to come from home as well and we do frequently tell him how clever/artisitic/imaginative/brave/funny/strong/etc etc he is).
He's taken a step back in terms of confidence with this teacher because she doesn't seem to know how to speak to him or boost him. Today after the assembly he clung to me, tearful and sad and said he wanted to come home with me. This set me off and I did cry a bit myself, not great in a busy hall and playground. Had I not had to work I would have whisked him off home I think.
I know the school has to show itself off but it would mean more to me and parents like me if they gave the less confident kids chance to grow their confidence, not put the same kids up there every single time.
Like I say, I know I'm being U and the school have a lot on their plates but it pissed me off to see him so disheartened.
(Sorry, v long. )
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FriedPisces · 23/03/2017 13:12
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