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Not wanting dirty accounts on bf's Snapchat

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SamiS Thu 23-Mar-17 01:12:05

Am I overreacting for being upset and wanting pornstars and dirty accounts off of my bf's Snapchat? I just find it disgusting and I don't feel comfortable with it.

Birdsgottaf1y Thu 23-Mar-17 01:20:17

What's a 'dirty account' and how long have you been together?

SamiS Thu 23-Mar-17 01:23:58

It's basically an account where this girl post nudes and videos of her doing stuff. And for about a year now

HeartShapedBox Thu 23-Mar-17 02:00:13

I'd find it really disrespectful, to be honest. And rather sad and pathetic.

LilQueenie Thu 23-Mar-17 02:08:12

did he add her before getting together with you or after?

SamiS Thu 23-Mar-17 02:09:13

After we got together

LilQueenie Thu 23-Mar-17 02:11:58

have you discussed this with him?

SamiS Thu 23-Mar-17 02:13:10

I haven't spoken to him properly about it but I have made a comment or so about how I don't like it and he just brushes it off and says that it's not a big deal

LilQueenie Thu 23-Mar-17 02:19:27

Well if really bothers you I suggest finding out what it is that bothers you about it then sit down and talk properly.

TheGaleanthropist Thu 23-Mar-17 02:29:13

Agree with LilQueenie. Talk to him properly about it. FWIW, I wouldn't be comfortable with that either.

tallwivglasses Thu 23-Mar-17 02:34:14

i wouldn't waste the time talking to him 'properly'. Think what you could be doing instead. Don't waste your life.

daisychain01 Thu 23-Mar-17 02:43:14

I'd kick any man to the kerb who doesn't take my concerns seriously after saying it's upsetting.

This filth is so freely available now, it's almost like phone wallpaper. Offensive, if you're trying to build a relationship to know he has another woman's boobs in his face.

There are men out there who don't want that stuff in their life, even if people on here claim to be cool about it.

daisychain01 Thu 23-Mar-17 02:44:59

A year is way too long for him not to get the message!

Faez Thu 23-Mar-17 02:49:15

Agree with tall

AnnaFiveTowns Thu 23-Mar-17 03:01:44

What tall said. Don't bother trying to discuss it. If he can't see what the problem is then there's no hope.

AnyFucker Thu 23-Mar-17 03:26:04

Get some self respect and kick him into touch

Kiwiinkits Thu 23-Mar-17 04:03:30

seriously, there are good respectful men out there who don't objectify women in this way. And who don't brush off and belittle legitimate concerns from their girlfriends.

this is a red flag. Dump.

Kiwiinkits Thu 23-Mar-17 04:04:06

* If he can't see what the problem is then there's no hope.*

She said it better than me.

EmeraldScorn Thu 23-Mar-17 05:25:05

If he hasn't acknowledged after a year that it's something you don't feel comfortable with, then he's never going to because he blatantly dismissed your feelings on the matter a long time ago.

If your boyfriend wants to have "nudes" to look at on his phone then surely said photos should be ones from his girlfriend, not some Snapchat hussy. (I'm not suggesting that you have to let him photograph you naked, I just mean he has you, he shouldn't need to get his kicks elsewhere).

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