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To feel so bloody hard done by

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FishOf1 Tue 21-Mar-17 22:22:27

After all this time

Systematically abused emotionally and on one occasion physically as a teenager by one parent.
The treatment of my sister though worlds apart.

I wonder what it means that my own parent clearly hates me? I question my very self.

I feel sorry for myself and I tie myself up in knots over it. Again today another example of how different things were for me and it cuts so deep each time that I struggled and was in so much pain and never helped.

Why does this happen? What on earth makes someone treat one child like shit and the other like royalty

fc301 Tue 21-Mar-17 23:06:49

It's called Triangulation. Narcissists do it all the time.
You deserved better and you are not to blame for the way you've been treated/ undervalued.
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FishOf1 Tue 21-Mar-17 23:09:27

I will google triangulation I had no idea this was an actual thing
I can't work out how or why I was picked sad

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