Where's the thing read about mum being due and not having anyone to have DC2?

[TheCuntess]

I swear I put it on my watch list but now it's not there.

I was hoping it all turned out ok in the end as I was in a very similar position a few years ago!

[backtowork2015]

I came back to it and it has been deleted whilst mnhq investigate. Not sure what the last posts were but pp were questioning why the OP had written on a previous thread she was due june and in that thread she was due any day. Annoying isn't it? Pointless if it was trolling

[Out2pasture]

Well family don't abandon you for no reason

[SorrelSoup]

I believed she had changed her due date on a previous thread to avoid outing herself.

Out2pasture her parents were alcoholics and her husband and his family were abusive.

[picklemepopcorn]

That is so sad. We change details so we don't out ourselves, then it bites us on the bum later. I really felt for her. Useless relatives. Puts you off getting pregnant.

[MrFirthsDate]

Out2pasture -Well family don't abandon you for no reason

Oh yes they can and do - not all families are loving, caring and there for each other!

[TheCuntess]

I dont agree. I've spoken to Mumsnet before about changing certain details for anonymity. They said they are aware people need to do this and can see that's what they have done.

They must have dealt with SO many trolls that most of the time, at least, there's an obvious difference between trolling and the want for genuine anonymity.

[picklemepopcorn]

Are you saying that she couldn't have been deleted for being a troll just for changing the due date of the baby? So she is a troll and MNHQ know? Or it was deleted for another reason?

[TheCuntess]

If you changed small things like referring to ds as dd or changing their age slightly so's not to out yourself that's fine.

But to make up total bollocks saying you're due in the summer when you're due in the winter/spring is just trolling bs.

[SorrelSoup]

I don't think it's an outrageous detail to change. It's the same as dd/ds.

[TheCuntess]

I guess there must be even more to it then, if MNHQ pulled it.

[broodylady123]

I really hope she's ok. I changed details on a pp, and made dp five years younger.
That one really bit me on the bum

If you're reading this op. I'm routing for you!