Hey guys,
I have name changed for this, for fear of outing myself.
My DP and I have 3 children, and it is our middle one, who is causing me concern.
He is 3 years and 9 months old. I dont even know how to start this really.
He has always had me worried. He is on the go and has been ever since he could walk, which I know is "normal".
Right here goes, these are his "Issues":
Slaps his head (not frustrated or upset or excited)
Is extremely hyper
Has no fear of getting hurt
Jumps off sofas, toy boxes, anything high
Doesn't make eye contact easily
Always says pardon when talking to him
Repeatedly says carers name, even if carer has answered with 'yes' multiple times
Zones out
Doesn't appear to be listening at various times
Interrupts
Doesn't understand patience
Gags on various foods (mainly potato)
Won't touch certain foods
Only eats certain foods
Has more hyper episodes when drinking certain squashes
Goes even more hyper if on blue inhaler (ventolin)
Doesn't appear to listen unless you have him facing towards you, even then it is hit and miss
Doesn't cope with certain noises (brother crying, happy birthdays, clapping) either holds ears or screams Ahh.
Very poor sleeper
Doesn't respond well to authority
Gets angry when gets told no
Will hide if cross and go 'Baa' (in a high pitch) at you
Will hit if cross
Will throw toys if cross or upset
Does not cope well with sitting still
Always on the go
Does girly hand movements
Does not make friends easily
Does not cope very well with groups of people
Specific about which plates he uses
Scratches his head a lot
Gets frustrated easily
Does not like giving hugs
Now I know a lot say most of this is normal behaviour, but he is not. Call it want you want, but I know that my son is not "the norm"
There i said it. And it has taken me a long time to get to this point.
I am at my wits end. I have spoken to my HV, he has had blood tests, he has seen the Paediatrician for poor weight gain, and everyone says 'typical boy'. He is not a bloody typical boy, i would go as far as saying he is manic most of the time.
I have sent our doctor a letter advising that I would like his hearing tested (Pre-School mentioned this) and i would like him referred to have his mental health assessed, do you even call it that with kids??
I just dont know what to do anymore. Am I allowed to push for an assessment? Has anyone dealt with any of the stuff listed above? Am I going mad? How on earth do doctors decide what is wrong?
And then if they do ascertain that there is something not quite right, what will they actually do? Just at my wits end, please help x
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goingmadagain · 19/03/2017 19:05
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