So my dh has been asked to come on holiday with his ex and his dss, they are going to Morroco in August and have asked dh to come along as she doesn't want to drive in a foreign county. She has also asked dh to pay 50% of the cost. The hotel is one on the Atlas Mountains and is actually really nice and the arrangements would be like a family room with dh having his own bed but in a connecting room.
I have two problems with this
- They will be eating out together and sharing a hotel room all be it connecting I don't trust her and I'm insecure as she is a very beautiful women.
- It is a three week holiday in the summer holidays takes up all of dh's holiday which means he doesn't get to see my dc or his dc with me in the summer break.
- We were planning to do something with the kids in Cornwall or Devon for a week but this cannot be affordable for us now.
- I can't see why she can't pay for private transfers into Marrakech or the airport.
5 it's not like her dss is young he is 16.
Aibu to think dh should refuse this and instead pay for his ds and our children and my children to pay for a holiday for all of us as this seems fair.
I think it is very selfish and I think dh should say no to it but I get why he wants to do it.