I don't think IABU but need some outside perspective.
I work part time but have a zero hour contract so my shifts vary week to week. DP has been unemployed for over 2 months now. DP claims to have been job hunting whilst unemployed, however I whenever I look at his computer screen while he's on it, he is playing video games. Money is starting to get tight so he really needs to get a job soon.
I was not working today so was up bright and early with housework. DP got up around midday. I decided to give him a little push and have several job sites loaded up on his computer ready for him. He saw, gave me very hurt look, but did start looking through them.
I then went to the shop and returned about an hour and a half later to find DP was no longer on job sites but playing his stupid online game! I asked him how the job hunt was going and he said he was taking a break. This did not sit well with me and I got very upset with him and told him that he's spent the last two months dicking around on that game and that it was about time he grew up and took some responsibility.
This did not sit well with him and he has now spent most of the afternoon sulking in bed with the cover pulled over his head.
I know his reaction is extremely childish but was I being a bit unfair to kick off at him like that?
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FutureMammyB · 17/03/2017 19:34
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