My dh has been doing a certain job for a
few years and he loathes it. He started to dislike it early on and over time he's just got more and more down about it. His depression and stress is now affecting our marriage and family life as he can't seem to enjoy anything anymore. He says his hate for his job consumes his every thought.
Nothing I say is right and he won't seek help from a doctor. Just recently he has started to apply for jobs, two so far but although he did well (getting to a second interview) he didn't get them.
In desperation I have agreed that he can quit his job without having another job to go to. This makes me feel quite sick as it's such a huge risk but at this stage I feel like his mental health is in jeopardy.
It seems like since I agreed to this a bit of a weight has lifted for him. I suppose he can see a light at the end of the tunnel which is good.
While I have agreed to it I want to put conditions on the arrangement. I was thinking things like getting him to sign up with recruitment agencies before he quits and then once he has quit, dedicating a minimum amount of time per day / week to looking for work. I don't want to overwhelm him but we couldn't pay all our bills on just my salary and we have limited savings. AIBU to put conditions to him doing this? Or should I just step back and hope he just sorts it all out himself and not put any pressure on?
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Aria2015 · 15/03/2017 23:09
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