I'm new to forums and have had second thoughts about posting at all but am desperately sad and need advice.
My MIL is making my life hell. My parents live in a different country and I only live (unfortunately) 5 miles from my MIL. I'm not sure where to start as there's too much to say for 1 post but I have a 4 year old daughter who MIL hasn't bothered with for 6 months (not that she bothered with her much before). The reason? My daughter has my mother's name as her middle name and not MIL's. Now, the reason for this is because my MIL hates her name!! Hates it! Won't be called by it and refuses to answer to it! So we never considered it as a middle name for that reason, not because we were being nasty. I won't talk about all the other awful stuff she's done to me and my daughter as it'd take too long. I had a son 4 weeks ago and we gave him my (deceased) FIL's name as a middle name and she's hit the roof. She won't talk to us and hasn't come to see my son once or even asked about him. I honestly (stupidly) thought she would be ok with the name as it means there's a name from my family and a name from hers but I was obviously wrong. She said to my DH 'I get why you used his name, can't compete with a dead man'. To make matters worse she's trying to get the rest of DH's siblings onside by spreading lies and making up things that we say. I'm just devastated. She's trying to ruin the births of both my children. I don't have family living near and wanted so much to have a big, loving family for my kids. I want to cut ties (and move) as I'm sick of her toxic behaviour but haven't said so as I know it's my husband's mother and just don't know what to do any more. I just want my kids to have a happy mum and a happy family 😕. There's so much more to this but that's the gist. Any advice appreciated.
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MILDrama · 14/03/2017 22:30
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