Dsd is 18 and until now we have been very hands-off letting her keep her room however she likes.
However it is now smelling so badly that even with two doors shut between her room and the house we can still smell it. (Laundry and bedding mainly.) She has also been complaining of fleas. (Cat got in there a while back - not a problem anywhere else in the house though.)
We told her last weekend that we would have to clean it. She didn't seem bothered. DH did it last weekend.
She has gone ballistic and is staying with friends. There were some - ahem - personal items sex toys she possess that DH put in a drawer but we'd already seen these millions of times as she's left them on her bed for all to see when we've been in to open the window.
DH is upset. I've told him he did the right thing as there is no longer a bad smell and he's hoovered up all the dust and changed the the sheets where no doubt the fleas were living. He's also done all laundry and put it away.
Is he BU for having done this? He feels like dsd won't forgive him!
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steppinstone · 14/03/2017 11:28
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