OK I need to write this as structured as possible so I'm going to do points and you can say if any/all are unreasonable.
- they babysat my 5 month old when I had my first ever keep in touch day with work, that morning baby got ill with a cold and a bad chest and I asked them to please keep her inside, they said yes. 3 hours later I get a pic of them out and said we needed a little walk. Bit annoying but ok a little walk won't do any harm. 3 hours later again a text saying still put had a lovely day...
- I have a really bad back since very fast labour (under docs for it) makes it impossible to rock my baby which is upsetting enough. I've asked everyone who holds her not to rock her as for days after she's been rocked she can't be settled any other way and I either need to put her through upset or put myself through pain. They agreed but rock her in front of me everytime I see them, when I ask them to stop they say I'm criticising them.
3.i don't like my baby having a dummy except from for bed and they keep giving her one when I'm out of the room when she isn't even crying. I don't even take one to their house anymore so they call me mean mum.
- When DD was 4 days old FIL stick his finger in her mouth, I said have you washed that (I didn't care even if he had because I found it gross) he said no. Now they keep telling DP I have depression and need help because I didn't want germs in the babies mouth
- Every time I see them they ask me everything, this sounds stupid but it really is everything. Are you going back to work, are you enjoying being a mum, what do you do with her all day, are you over the labour etc etc. I see them once or twice a week so mostly the answers don't change and I'm sick of saying the same thing over and over
Genuinely interested what people think