I sit in an office with 4 other people, all of us are heads of department apart from the team PA who sits across the partition from me (I have a private office but I don't like to sit in it when I'm not on calls or in meetings as I find it quite isolating). Team PA is on annual leave today, I've been in the office an hour and a half and so far three men have wandered in seen she isn't here and so asked me to, cancel a hotel, do their expenses, and book a meeting room respectively. I have said politely 'sorry, I can't help with that, PA will be back in tomorrow' expenses guy went off in a huff, meeting room guy was nice, hotel guy then looked at the other two in the office, ignored the male head of property and asked the female head of accounting if she could do it.
Not bothered about people asking, in the same situation i would ask the nearst person too. 'Is x not in today? Do you know if there is someone else who could help me with x?' I don't mind helping someone if i can (although on this one i can't - not a scooby about any of those) It's the assumption that woman = person who does admin that's annoying.
AIBU to just retreat into my office for the rest of the day? It feels like cowardice but I can't think of a polite way of telling people to fuck off. Any suggestions welcome!
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thecolonelbumminganugget · 13/03/2017 10:04
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