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GingerMammaBear Sun 12-Mar-17 23:12:12

Does anyone else feel like a slave to their families? Bottom of the heap? Does all the family organisation including housework, dinners, kid organisation, husband organisation, part time work, etc etc?
My husband is working a lot just now doing extra jobs, but as we don't desperately need the money I see it as him choosing to spend time away from us/me and I'm feeling resentful as I'm left to do everything else as well as work part time? AIBU??
Maybe it's my fault as I've assumed these roles and just "got on with it" but today I want to fecking kill someone I'm so frustrated!!!!
Maybe I'm due my period.......

MumW Sun 12-Mar-17 23:31:23

Stop blaming your period. YANBU to feel like this so sit down with DH and tell him how you feel.

sonlypuppyfat Sun 12-Mar-17 23:34:28

Know your place woman grin

Just stop doing it, especially the husband organisation, how old are the kids, old enough to do their own organisation? Or while you're having tea together list all the things that need doing and ask who's going to do what. Make it visible.

Sometimes I wonder if the feelings I have when I'm premenstrual are how I really feel and I'm just repressing them the rest of the time.

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