Not all introverts feel like this I know but I do!
I've a lot of friends and in some ways I'm extroverted. I'm out going in that I enjoy socialising with friends and have always been chatty at work.
But I only like people to an extent and before I had children, while I was chatty all day at work, I would want to come home to an empty, silent house.
I loved living with family but had to spend a lot of the time in my room reading a book or on the internet.
If I had a social event on a Saturday I needed Sunday alone to 'recover'. If I went days without talking to anyone I felt lonely so I do like company.
When I met my partner I had my son but we didn't stay together. I enjoyed the baby stage until my Son was 1 year old,but once he started wanting someone to play with I found things such a chore.
I'm sure I'm not depressed.
My son is now 4 and he never shuts up. I feel like I am going absolutely mad. I have to do pretend play with him. I have play dates which means I have to endure chatting to mums from school
He constantly talks to me and wants help with something. Just now I've been summoned to help with pulling stickers off his activity book.
Then there's the tantrums which I have to deal with. He's actually a well heaved child but I just find his constant talking an absolute torture. I can read while he's playing and do go on here a lot but I can't do either properly without having to interrupt what I'm doing every 5 mins to play with him or chat to him.
He climbs on me a lot too.
I understand this is just the way children are and I'm not trying to change him.
When he's gone to bed I'm too tired to do much but do immediately turn all TV off and have a bath and read a book.
I never realised how much silence was an essential part of my life and how much it means to my wellbeing and stress levels.
My son is in school and I work but this makes no difference. I still spend almost all my free time with him (no family support and his dad barely sees him).
I love my Son and when he's older I'm sure we will have a wonderful bond. But right now, all I really want is silence. To go home from work to silence. Wake up to silence. To read a book. To be alone. I just want to be alone! Completely alone in complete silence!
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Iwantpinotgrigio · 12/03/2017 16:52
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