Bit of background info. I am a single parent and currently have quite a good job. I'm not particularly well off but I am comfortable. I have one DD who is currently in year 11. We live in quite an affluent area (got a mortgage at the right time!) and I have worked extremely hard to put my daughter through private education. She is in the process of doing her GCSE's and has recently informed me that she wants to get a job instead of doing her A levels or going to university. I informed her that she cannot leave full time education until she's 18 to which she replied that she will just do a health and social course. I am not a snob by any means but health and social courses are notoriously easy and looked down upon. She plans to just go into full time office work which she believes doesn't require many qualifications. I keep encouraging her to take a more ambitious path but she does not have the motivation. I cant help but feel disappointed as like I said, my neighbours and friends are affluent so their children are all aspiring to go to oxbridge or other universities, and want to take A Levels. To add an extra layer of complication, she wants to live with her Dad 2 hours away. I have never liked the idea of her moving in with him but am starting to think that maybe she should go. I have just recently paid off my mortgage and am thinking of selling if DD decides to move out. I lived in Malaysia for 2 years when I was 25 and am thinking that I may try to sell my house and move back there as I loved it.
Advice please xx
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ohmarina · 12/03/2017 16:17
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