Particularly when the reason you are visiting is to see a baby and you know that your going to fuck up their bedtime routine??
Usually we don't see PIL on a weeknight for precisely this reason (they are always late) but MIL asked to come round at 5pm for 10 mins as she is away this weekend. She then turned up at 6:15pm, stayed for 45 mins and seemed upset when DH told her that the reason our 5m/o daughter was overtired and grizzling and the dog was going apeshit about not being walked or fed was because her being late had completely messed up our already adjusted evening... She then proceeded to say she got chatting to people at work and acted hurt when we didn't reassure her that this made everything ok....
We make sure we see them every weekend - and normally have to work round their busy social lives (and still they're normally at least an hour late) it's driving me insane and my husband feels very conflicted as he wants to defend them but finds their behaviour frustrating.
I really want to be understanding - but I've just spent an hour and a half soothing a screaming overtired mess of a child to sleep for no reason and am dog tired and not feeling very charitable right now.
Please tell me this drives other people insane too!! And does anyone have any strategies for dealing with this that don't cause drama/make me come across as a completely controlling bitch??
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P1nkSparkles · 09/03/2017 22:28
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