...you call them "CertainName" and not "Cert"?
I have a name that has a popular shortening - think along the lines of Joanne/Jo. I never use the short form and always introduce myself, sign off emails etc with the full version of my name. I have a colleague who invariably uses the shortening and has done since they started here despite me saying quite early on that I prefer the full version. Then today my DH had a meeting with a disability advisor. I'm his advocate so I'm the one who set up the meeting via email - signing myself CertainName as usual and I accompanied him. Despite my DH introducing me as CertainName the advisor immediately started referring to and calling me Cert. Raaargh!
AIBU to think it's a bit rude to ignore the name someone clearly prefers and assume - without asking - that you can call them by a different name?
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