Hi everyone
After some advice, I haven't actually asked anyone yet! But.. Me and DP are getting married. We have just booked our wedding for 18 months time. I have 1 brother and no sisters. DP has 1 brother 2 sisters. DP and his db are not close. My brother is disabled and DP suggested that he would like him as his best man, because he is not close to his own brother, (we do see him but only 1/2 a year even though we don't live to far away) and he see's my brother as more of a brother. Also it would be something really lovely for my db to do to be able to get involved in the wedding as he would be able to have the wedding rings etc. I thought, because of this, my dp 2 sisters (who he is close to) I would ask one of them to be my maid of honour and the other my matron of honour. I know its traditional to only have 1 maid of honour but I'm having 4 other bridesmaids so would be nice to give them both a little bit of an extra role. I was going to ask them and say to them at the time that my db is going to be best man as we thought it would be nice for him to have someone from my side of the family by his side and likewise for me, it would be nice for me to have someone from his side by my side!! if you see what i mean. Do you think this is ok? I don't honestly think his brother will be hurt as they aren't close and we are still going to give him a role for the wedding. What does everyone think before we ask? thanks
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user1488971792 · 08/03/2017 11:27
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