MN is so harsh sometimes.... There's so much arm-chair "LTB" or "If my DBro said that to me I'd be NC" or "Ditch this friend... she is a USER".
I do get sticking up for yourself... not being a doormat.
But I'm horribly gobby with a rubbish filter. I say out-of-order things ALL THE TIME. I don't mean to, but I do.
Should I be dumped for that by everyone I know?
I completely rely on friends, family.... people who love me... being understanding and - ultimately - forgiving. Not that I don't need to apologise. But making a mistake... getting things wrong. Does that really mean I'm ditched without ceremony never to be allowed back in? What about the other side of me, which is generous and caring and puts myself out?
This isn't a thread about me, I've just used myself as an example.
In RL, are you really as quick to completely and permanently dump people who are close to you?
And doesn't that ultimately leave you (principled, perhaps) but isolated and alone?
Or do other MN-ers have a non-ending supply of friends and family members?
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PuddleJumper01 · 07/03/2017 23:35
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