Have a complicated scenario regarding dd1 (15). I've posted before about dcs health but dd1 has EDS, scoliosis, Pectus excavatum, CFS/ME, Pots and PCOS. Also now suffering from depression and anxiety due to her ongoing poor health.
She was not managing at school. Attendance v low and mornings are a particular struggle. She is dizzy, faints, is exhausted and in pain. Previously (up till December) this was morning routine:
645-7am try to wake dd
Usually either unsuccessful or she felt so unwell could barely do anything or herself-was rushed and she was unable to eat anything due to feeling so unwell
7-740am trying to help her get ready (plus the other 3 dcs with health issues)
745 am dh took dd1 to coach stop where she got the coach at 850am and by this point already exhausted and then could not complete a whole day at school and often had whole days off
Dh would then return and we would take younger 3 dcs to their primary school and dh goes on to work.
We decided to change things. To enable dd1 to have more time to get ready and eat breakfast etc we cancelled the coach for her. Mornings are now as follows
715 am wake dd1
715-8 am she can get ready slowly and not rush.
8 am we leave to take younger dcs to school. Dd1 often then manages to have something to eat and drink and she is dropped to school by dh at around 9-910am depending on traffic. This slower paced morning seems to manage her symptoms are bit better, often she's still very unwell butbweve had a few days where she had stayed all day at school.
The school are not happy and want her in on time or earlier and want us to change the routine that works best.....we would rather sacrifice 10mins at the start of the day for did being less exhausted and able to stay in school longer ?
I don't drive so not an option for us to do separate school runs and public transport would involve either 2 buses and a walk or 1 bus a train and a walk which dd would not manage.
I don't think we are BU? This works for us and all I want is for dd to feel slightly better in the mornings and stay in school longer
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AIBU?
I don't think I am, but please be honest
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Hedgehog80 · 07/03/2017 13:36
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