I've already done it so more of a WIBU.
My dad lost his job a week or so ago and his drinking (which was already quite bad) has gotten out of control in the aftermath.
I'll try to keep this as short as possible but he texted me about an hour ago asking if he could stay at my flat tonight. I asked why and said no. He said he was coming anyway.
I texted his fiancée to ask what had happened and she forwarded me a screenshot of a text he'd sent to her daughter (who lives there -19 yo) basically saying 'I'm moving you out, I'm not having you take the piss out of me'
I rang him and said I do not want him in my flat right now and can he not sleep on his own sofa. He hung up on me.
His fiancée then texted to say he'd gone out on the bike (motorbike) and she didn't know where he'd gone.
Despite his insistence that he hadn't been, I could tell from when I briefly spoke to him that he was very drunk.
So I called the police. I know nothing about the bike (he's been through three in about the past 12 months) but he has a personalised number plate so I gave that.
I've since spoken to him and am confident he doesn't have the bike so have called and cancelled the search. I'm on my way to the pub he's in now and if there's any sign of the bike I'll call them back.
I've told him I'm going to see him (and try to force him to go home so he doesn't get arrested regardless of the bike - he's an aggressive drunk) but he seems to think I'm a terrible person for calling the police in the first place.
I'm on my way there now and just need a bit of emotional back up really.
Not very short at all... thanks for reading if you have.
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Bleurghghghgh · 06/03/2017 20:22
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