I'm a single mum. I have a three year old.
I've always been someone who liked to have a clean house. I'm not OCD about it but can't relax in a dirty or messy house.
Everyone told me once I have a child my house would suddenly become a tip but I knew that wouldn't be the case.
Yes my son has toys everywhere during the day but he's been taught to put them back when he's finished and I don't let him eat around the house as I think he should eat at the table.
Between 4-5pm while I'm cooking dinner I tidy the house. I actually enjoy it. My house is spotless and tidy and while it's harder to keep a house clean and tidy with children, I've not found it a chore or difficult.
My friends seem to think my house should be a tip (their own words) like theirs and seem very put out that my house is so clean. They make passive aggressive comments about it and how they don't have time to clean once the children have gone to bed.
I find it so irritating.
If they want to prioritise something else that's absolutely fine and I know some people find it a struggle to keep and tidy house with children and that's fine. For me, having a clean and tidy house is very important and I couldn't live in a dirty house. It only takes me an hour a day when I'm cooking dinner anyway. So it's no bother and it doesn't mean I'm neglecting my son inorder to have the place clean.
AIBU to want and to have a clean house?
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To have a spotlessly clean house as a single mum to a toddler
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Hopeless29 · 06/03/2017 19:04
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