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Feelingiabu Mon 06-Mar-17 13:33:53

Ok, little back story, I have 2 kids, a preschooler and a late teen. I live hundreds of miles from most of my family and friends and aside from in laws, work friends & mums at groups I am generally quite isolated here.

I have been invited on a girls holiday with friends from my hometown, holiday was originally planned for 3/4 day break and so I was keen to go, I felt this was manageable and not too cheeky ( I have never left dh to care for either child alone) but days have now increased to a week and I now feel I couldn't go as it's too long.

I am tired, I really miss my friends, feel a little under appreciated etc so was treating it as a bit of a reward (in my head, you know to help with the guilt)!

Dh is ok with me going and he'd manage just fine.

Would AIBU to just go?

Smellyrose Mon 06-Mar-17 13:34:34

Of course you can go!

ChicRock Mon 06-Mar-17 13:35:12

What's stopping you from just joining them for 3-4 days then?

FiveGoMadInDorset Mon 06-Mar-17 13:35:55

Go and have fun, your DH will be fine and is happy for you to go

NavyandWhite Mon 06-Mar-17 13:42:29

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

ijustwannadance Mon 06-Mar-17 13:43:56

I'd be skipping out the door guilt free!

Gaaaah Mon 06-Mar-17 13:45:01

I think you're being silly. Please go and have a good time. The house will not burn down while you're away.

MovingOnUpMovingOnOut Mon 06-Mar-17 13:45:17

Go. Or I will!

BigSandyBalls2015 Mon 06-Mar-17 13:45:19

Why has DH never looked after the kids alone - that's years if you've a late teen!?

BigSandyBalls2015 Mon 06-Mar-17 13:45:45

And surely a 'late teen' doesn't need much looking after?

BigSandyBalls2015 Mon 06-Mar-17 13:46:07

go!! Def go!

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