A colleague of mine only ever asks me to hang out last minute, when I usually have other plans. I always apologise and ask if she wants to do something the next week - which is always met with a "maybe" sort of answer, and is never followed through. I believe she only asks me as a last resort as she rarely wants to make plans in advance, and it's only ever when she's fallen out with her other friends that she'll ask me.
The thing is, she always takes the hump when I say I already have plans, and hardly speaks to me at work for the rest of the day. Like she expects me to drop what I'm doing for her. I never act that way with her, even when she cancels plans at the last minute.
She can be very manipulative and has bullying tendencies. I'm trying to phase her out, she doesn't act like a true friend towards me. What's the best way to do this? I don't want to hurt her feelings but I do want her to get the message!
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LittleMermaidRose · 06/03/2017 12:14
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