We have 3ds's aged 10, 8 and 1. Currently in a 2 bed house...ds1 and 2 share a room and ds3 is still in his cot with me and Dh ATM.
We're about to move to a 3 bed house. It has one very large double, one average double and one large single bedroom. Dh and I have discussed and thought we'd give ds1 and 2 the large double, we'd have the other and ds3 the single.
Ds1 and 2 are not happy. Ds1 is desperate to have his own room and wants the single. And ds2 really wants to share with ds3.
We've said no and much begging and pleading has ensued from ds1 and 2.
Aibu to insist they share? ATM ds2 is completely happy to share with ds3 but it's a novelty which I'm certain will wear off...not many 12 year olds will be thrilled to share with a 5 year old who may mess with their stuff and have big plastic toys everywhere. I don't think it will be fair on ds1 to give him his own room and then force him out of it when the novelty of sharing with a baby wears off for ds2.
All round it's just much more practical for the older boys to share.
Would you put your foot down from the off or let them share as they want with the knowledge you'll probably be switching rooms around in the near future?
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AIBU?
To not let the dc choose who shares a room in new house?
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Emeraldie · 05/03/2017 09:53
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