To want to punch him!

[Bleugh1]

My partner has decided to pack his bags and leave tonight! On the eve of my ds's birthday, leaving me totally skint, with a birthday party tomorrow for my ds.

[frauleinsallybowles]

didnt want to read and run op... are you ok? what has made him decide do this too you? hope you are ok

[Grilledaubergines]

Oh god OP. Have you got anyone you can call or get to come and sit with you?

[threesocksmeghan]

What a bastard :(

[Bleugh1]

I'm actually shaking! Really cannot believe he has done this. We have been skint for months, due to him not working. I've ploughed all my ('our') money into helping him out! On the understanding he pays for food etc tomorrow (i paid for party when I booked it)

Now pay day for him! And he has told he cannot 'stand this anymore' and left

[Grilledaubergines]

How old is your DS?

[Bleugh1]

He is 13 tomorrow. Not my DP's son, my son from previous relationship. My son has autism.

I feel like such a mug, trusting my DP and thinking money was 'ours'