So back story DH did not get on with mother would say hi if he saw her at his DS but would never visit her and she wasn't allowed contact with our DC. This is our 7th year together and he hasn't seen her on Mother's Day for the last 6. We'll MIL died suddenly last year at a youngish age.
Last week DH told me to make sure I wasn't working Mother's Day as he has something special planned, so I got rather excited and dreaming like things like a lay in and dinner cooked for me 😂
Tonight SIL turned up and the 'something special' is they are going to MIL grave then to visit dad (he is not DH dad and they used to have an awful relationship) in his care home then out for a family meal! Grave is 1 1/2 hours away the care home a further half hour. So he wanted me off work to be at home alone with 3 DC while he goes out with DS's and there children/ partners for the day.
I really struggle with the whole fact of not seeing when they are alive but moping once they die, death doesn't suddenly make them a nice person! I am also annoyed me and DC where it invited as his DS doesn't like driving far so needs to go in his car with him so as the mother of his children my Mother's Day is the same as every other day of the year! Then he sulked and called me a selfish bitch when I said I am not staying in all day and will take DC to the zoo and a picnic
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Mousedl1 · 03/03/2017 21:33
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