Before I start I know that when anyone criticises your child the lioness in you can come out but I feel that the comments I received from my son's nursery were unhelpful and insensitive.
Bit a background. My son is 2.5 yr old and has been at this nursery since 10 months old. 3 weeks ago he moved up to the oldest room (2.5 yr old - 3/4 yr olds). My DD went to the same nursery but they didn't move up until they were 3yr old, so were potty trained, able to talk more and had greater concentration. I was a little apprehensive as I didn't think he was ready but I was assured that this was the new policy and lots of the 2.5yr olds had gone up with no problem.
Anyway 2 weeks ago the staff said they were having some problems with DS sleeping and eating. He was screaming and disturbing the other children. He also runs around, distracting other children and leading them astray.
At each pick up I would speak to the staff or manager and try to work out what to do, while working together for a solution. My main concern was that DS should sleep otherwise his behaviour is awful.
Today I pick him up and the first thing the staff member says is 'DS has had an awful day' running and screaming. My heart sank. When he does this at home we ignore because giving it any attention fans the flames and he does it more knowing it will get a reaction. The best thing is to engage him in an activity and distract. I said as much.
We then said goodbye and see you on Monday where the staff member then made it quite clear that he wasn't looking forward to it. Surely this is part of working in a nursery that you have to deal with challenging behaviour. I now feel very uncomfortable leaving my child somewhere that is not wanted. I am going to email the manger for a meeting and will not taking him back until this is resolved or we leave.
Am I being over sensitive and unreasonable? I feel like I can't see the wood for the trees. Also I'm not a mum who excuses my children's behaviour and will let them know when they are being badly behaved but I feel he is a spirited 2.5 yr old boy???
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loveithateitmum · 03/03/2017 18:08
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