I'll start by explaining that I have the utmost sympathy for those who are transitioning and who have had to transition as I can't even begin to imagine how truly difficult that journey would be.
I have often wondered what brings a person to that point of feeling that changing their physical anatomy will give them peace and allow them to be their true self.
I can imagine that growing up and being pigeon holed into wearing blue, playing with trucks, wearing "boys clothes" etc but feeling like you are more drawn to the "girl things". Feeling like society expects you to be a certain person just because you have male or female genitalia and feeling as though you're living a lie as a result of that.
Would it not be true to say that the physical anatomy is not necessarily the problem, but that it's how society has certain expectations of people based on whether they are male or female. That people from a young age feel that pressure to conform to certain gender roles and so, when they no longer want to live this lie, they feel the need to transition. Why does being physically male or female have to dictate anything about our lives? It strikes me that the problem is societies expectations of people based on their sex, rather than that individuals anatomy being "wrong" that is the problem.
I have nothing but compassion and love for those dealing with these issues. I just wish their was a way that we could become a society where we accept everyone as individuals rather and I wonder if I society like that would result in less people feeling the need to have such drastic surgery which must be such a difficult process.
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