Everyone around me (and their child/children) seem to be ill at the moment.
Im due to have a baby in 2 weeks and so have been doing my best to stay well and keep my lo well (20 months) following several months of constant illness for us both as a result of a relative coming to see us with a chest infection and heavy cold! (Mil, who lied when asked if ill because she was bored and wanted entertaining)
I am sahm so if my lo is ill the buck stops with me...and frankly speaking im too tired now, being so heavily pregnant, to deal with an ill child and being ill myself on top of being constantly uncomfortable and sleep deprived.
Is it reasonable to expect people to keep away from us if they or their child/children are ill? At the moment it seems like they just dont give a shit and are quite happy to come over or bring themselves and child/children to playgroups we attend and pass their germs around....its really pissing me off! So far the illness' being passed about are d&v, slapped cheek, chicken pox and scarlett fever on top of coughs, colds etc. As you can see, some of these are nasty and can can cause real issue in pregnancy (esp chicken pox!)
Aibu to think this is selfish and totally inconsiderate behaviour? My view is that if your child is ill, especially with something contageous, you keep them home and away from others, especially vulnerable people!
AIBU?
to be avoiding ill people?
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