I posted a week ago about my sons traumatic experience and rejection from his bio father. https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2863462-To-be-in-despair-at-the-way-things-are-with-my-son
Tonight I am in tears at how he is I blame myself for it. He takes his anger out at dh when he doesn't deserve it.
We have trired therapy but he doesn't speak to me or any professional.