I've been married for 10years. DS is 5 and DD 2.
It's safe to say have put up with fair share of inappropriate comments over the years. I for some reason have never been confrontational and caused arguments over them - at times had my husband have a word with his mum.
Since having kids have become somewhat more irritated and maybe irrational at MIL comments towards me. Escp concerning the kids.
She is the type of person that thinks that a child should/will love grandparent more than mother. I'd say she relishes in it.
Whilst at my house the the other week - I was saying how me and son are close and that he always tells me how much he loves me etc - pathetic as it is I was showing her how close we are as for some reason she refuses to believe it. I don't know why I feel I have to prove it to her maybe
Pathetic .
Anyway she turned to my son and said 'do you? Do you live your mummy more or your grandma'
Since then I have gone into free fall hate mode and I want to smash a wall.
She also questioned my priorities when it came to my kids as occasionally I go out!? Apparently once I did when Ds was ill -tho I can't recall doing this!
I can't move on and it's ruined any respect I had. We will always be in each other's lives so how do I digest this bullshit.
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Thisisme1 · 01/03/2017 18:02
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