Name changed as SIL in on here but I'm an oldie old.
It's not a MIL bashing thread as we did actually get on quite well. Me and DH have been together almost 20 years and now have 2 DS's. With DS1, PIL were heavily involved as they lived close, used to babysit regular etc. When I became pregnant with DS2 they decided to move almost 100 miles away for some bizarre unknown reason, left behind all family and friends.
Since moving they have stopped contacting us unless DH phones them. They only phone when they need something. We saw them for 2 hours at Xmas and they barely even looked or spoke to me. We had DS2's first birthday on Saturday and they completely ignored me and my family for the whole thing! Made comments about pictures being taken involving my mum etc and MIL even questioned family members she hadn't met as to who they were and it was done cheekily!
It seems they no longer thing I matter yet claim everything is fine when DH brings it up. I've told him if they continue to ignore me they won't be seeing my children (even though they barely see them as it is anyway) I genuinely don't get it. Up until they moved there was genuinely no issue at all.
Is it wrong to stop them seeing the DS's if they ignore me? Why should they decide which members of my family they can be bothered with??
Sorry it's long it's been building for a while and the lack of effort is really hitting DH
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What is it with MIL's??
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IAmNotTheWickedWitch · 01/03/2017 17:13
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