The long and short of it is DH is not sex mad, he never has been since day 1 although things quietness down considerably when we moved in together.
He only initiates sex at the weekends and rejects me in the week- either doesn't come up to bed with me or says he's too tired.
However, we are very happy together and while I was on bc and libido low wasn't too much of a problem. I've been wanting to ttc for a while and we decided I'd come off bc today (last pill). As it was, came off on sat, dtd sun but without tmi unlikely conception
Although every part of me wants to plan plan plan i don't want to be that person immediately and we had discussed just dtd more and seeing what happened. We have plans tomorrow and thurs so I initiated when we got home tonight. He just started laughing at me and said no and that I'm going crazy already! I said wanting to have sex more than once a week wasn't crazy and I thought we were ttc, he just told me to calm down it's not going to happen straight away.
1.i'm sure he's not cheating he's always been like this
- I don't think he's avoiding ttc as again he's always been like this since we've lived together
AIBU to want sex more or on weekdays particularly when he knows how much I want a baby?!