DD is 6 and has been having problems with this girl since the start of the year, lets call her Jane. This is going to be a little long so bare with me!
Since the start of the year there has been an incident at least once a week where Jane has shouted, said horrible things, excluding her, making horrible faces etc at DD. She actively seeks DD out. I've always told DD to tell the playground monitor, which she does and according to DD playground monitor just tells Jane not to do it.
It's been getting increasingly worrying as it's starting to cause DD to have breakdowns before going to school, she's been getting stressed at the thought of school that she's getting stomach pains and diarrhea. Crying for no reason at any moment.
It all came to a head last week when DD was at a party and Jane was also there. Towards the end of the party DD comes out in tears wailing so loud that I thought she had badly hurt herself. DD announces loudly that Jane is being mean again, is shouting at her to go away and that she hates DD. Jane's parent or guardian said or done absolutely nothing. Everyone turned around when DD came out so there's no way Jane's parent/guardian never noticed. I'm a lot younger than the other parents so don't interact enough to know who is who otherwise I would have said something at the time.
So I spoke to DD after the party and it turns out Jane has actually hurt or attempted to hurt DD a few times, to which DD told the teacher/monitor each time only or Jane to be told not to do it again.
I called DD's school yesterday to speak to the head, who was actually very angry that it's taken this long to be brought to her attention and admitted that the teacher and monitors should have reported it much sooner. They are going to speak to DD today and her teacher and call me after school.
I just read so many horror stories about schools not actually doing anything so want to be prepared with what questions I should be asking, what they should be doing etc. Thanks if you made it that far!
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Mishmashpotatoes · 28/02/2017 11:53
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