This isn't an in-law bashing thread
My parents in law live abroad, I'm married to their only son - we have children.
Dh has one sister, she is married but unfortunately they've not been successful TTC - we're close & although she lives a plane ride away we text & email a lot.
Dh's parents retired & moved abroad about four years ago & since then contact has been sporadic to say the least.
They like to Skype so will text asking if we're free (9/10 we are) then they'll either a) not bother skyping or b) be totally pissed.
I mean so drunk they make no sense & are talking rubbish. Our children (teens) don't want to talk to them when they're like that.
They'll scream & wander away leaving us looking at an empty sofa (I have hung up before when this has happened).
SIL is a regular church goer & frowns on drinking so I broached this with her recently in an email. She confirmed they never ever Skype her when they've been drinking, she was shocked they do it to us & said we need to tell them it's disrespectful.
I am getting annoyed that we hardly tell them any news (a family member was very very ill before Christmas & they were do drunk the night they Skyped I had to email the following day to recap the details.
I don't think they've a drinking problem, they're both retired & enjoy an afternoon drink but when we've suggested skyping Sunday lunch time or a week night they say they'd prefer to do it on a Saturday night - I'm wondering why they do it when fuelled up on alcohol?
Dh said they'll likely text to Skype tomorrow night. WIBU if I leave the room rather than try to converse with two steaming pensioners? Dd (16) refused to talk to them the last time, saying there was no point as they didn't remember anything & asked her the same questions repeatedly.
We have a good relationship in general & when they're home (once a year) they're good grandparents who spend time with the kids. We've visited them abroad too but it's been less successful (again too much alcohol)
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They only phone/Skype when they're drunk
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Topuptheglass · 24/02/2017 21:21
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