It's been a hard week. We're both tired. We've had a lot of furniture delivered, and so we've had to do alot of sorting, tidying, rearranging, and time management. I also work full time while dh has the kids. Today it seems the stress has come to a head trying to build a bed. I feel I have more right to be tired because I work, look after the kids on my days off, tip runs, aswell as all the tidying and sorting, and night feeds. Dh feels he's more tired because of looking after the kids while I've been at work, as well as building the furniture. He wanted a lie in this morning, and was woken up early by the kids as they went and jumped on him while I was on the loo. So he woke up in an utterly foul mood. I tried explaining that we're both tired and stressed and we should try and be kind to each other but he's in such an awful mood he's threatening to leave because he's sick of the tidying and sorting and basically being a grown up. It's now all adding to my stress. I hope we survive the day, we still have another bed, wardrobe and chest of drawers to put up
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Anyone else play the 'who's more stressed' game with their spouse?
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MadJeffBarn · 23/02/2017 10:28
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