Dh wants his parents to have DS while we go for lunch. MIL has babysat once which wasn't great ignored everything I'd said had DS overexcited and up way past bedtime but to be fair I agreed as I thought at least with it being the day no issue with bedtime. Anyway next thing I know they're asking how long we'll be as they are taking him somewhere that's an hours drive each way (they don't even have a car seat, or any idea how to use ours. She once told me I could just strap his carrycot in the backseat!) me and Dh had already said before DS's arrival that we were not comfortable with him going out without us until he's bigger, but he just sat there and went along with them. When I said to him I'm not comfortable with them taking DS out he agreed he didn't want that to happen either?! I tried to tell them no we won't be long please just stay in with him but as usual they ignored me. I now don't feel comfortable leaving baby with them as I don't trust them to which DH has fell out with me. AIBU? Sorry it's a long rant !
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GlitterandSparkle88 · 22/02/2017 10:28
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