I'll probably get told off about this not being in 'Relationships' but I wanted to reach all the people that have gone through similar.
I've been with my partner for nearly 10 years. We have two children together.
I think I want to leave him (or ask him to leave). I can't seem to muster up the courage to do it.
I worry about everything that will follow. How it will affect the children, the change, the fallout, the money. I try and think of the positives but then think oh I'll just carry on.
Here's the thing, I do love him. I think. He's just no good for anything apart from earning his wage and 'babysitting' while I work. It sounds harsh but is very true. I have put up with this for so long that I don't think it will ever change. He knows he does nothing to help but still carries on even though I have made noises about it recently. He obviously doesn't care that it upsets me so I think I've given up on that route.
So how do I do it? How do I commit to stopping the 'just a bit longer'? What was the trigger of your decisions? I don't think I can do it!
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To ask how you did it. How you ended it?
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Mejustmeok · 22/02/2017 00:00
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