More of a WWYD?

[lasagne15]

My life completely collapsed nearly 3 years ago. An attempt to rebuild made things worse (not my fault really but anyway.)

So now I am left with the following problems

Single (I know it's not a problem but I don't want to be and also want a baby)
Need a job
Need to lose 5 stone a fair bit of weight

So logically I should start with weight. But any suggestions or encouragement ...?

[Gingerbreadmam]

small, easy achievable goals?

could you join weight watchers or slimming world? once you see weight going down that can keep you motivated.

join a dating site.

send in a minimum of x applications per week / fortnight / month.

join a few recruitment agencies.

start a new hobby, something you have always fancied.

[SheSaidNoFuckThat]

Do you have a career in mind? A specific job?

Weight loss can be done alongside the job hunting, dont do anything drastic as it's hard to stick to - I think once you make progress with those the singleness will either sort itself or you'll be too busy enjoying your new confidence to worry!

Good luck

[Astro55]

As you don't work at the moment you have lots of time for exercise - walking is just as good as a gym - put an add in for dog walking so you can earn and excerise -

There are ways - you just have to keep positive

[lasagne15]

Hi thanks; I do work but I don't have any real career

[Naemates]

Get a job as a postie, lose weight walking, meet lots of sexy posties and make a fairly good wage!